Secrets to Giving a Sweet, Unforgettable Blow Job

Blow job, technically known as fellatio, is the act of stimulating a penis with the mouth, usually by licking, kissing, sucking, nibbling and tickling. This act is performed with the goal of ejaculation or as a foreplay before sexual intercourse. Administering blow job–also called sucking off, giving head, BJ, or fellation–actually has some cultural and religious significance in many countries. For instance, the said act is mentioned in the Kama Sutra of Ancient Indians, while a highlands tribe in Papua New Guinea named Baruya subjects young boys in semen ingestion of older men to help them achieve sexual maturity and masculinity. While some people view it as disgusting, it is notable though that even female fruit bats perform this act to their mates in order to prolong copulation time.

Blow job, without question, is the best sexual sensation that men can experience in their life because it gives them the feeling of heaven, whether the giver is a novice or not. All oral stimulation performed to their “package” is considered pleasant, leading them to a pedestal height and a state of psychological and physical vulnerability. Men who never experienced receiving a head can be said to be unlucky, since the sensual and erotic excitement that it provides is substantially incomparable to any kind of sexual act.

Everyone can administer a blow job, but the difference is that some can really get adept at it while others are so inept in hustlering the act. Notions have it that men are more skilled at giving blow jobs than women, perhaps because they share the same organ and they already know what feels good and what can create euphoria. But all the same, blow jobs of any kind can satisfy a man no matter what–the only thing is if you will make the experience unforgettable.

If you want to learn how to perform a good blow job, there are several sites out there that offer insightful articles on administering one. You can also find some good online fellation videos, which you can study and imitate. Like any kind of skill, giving head requires time to learn, so you might need to perform it several times before you actually get the feedback you want to hear from a man. You can say that it is nonsensical to learn such a taboo thing, but if you want to keep a man by your side, you have to add a good fellatio every time in addition to real love.

Before you can learn how to do fellation, you should first change your view about it. You have to dismiss the idea that it is dirty, sinful, and taboo; instead, look at it as an activity that can add flavor to your sexual relationship, something that can contribute depth to you and your partner’s pleasure.

If you–male or female–are ready to learn this valuable skill, then here is a step-by-step guide on how to perform it to a man of any size and girth:

1. Depending on your libidinal level, you may start off with his pants or shorts on or not. If you want to include some prelude, tease his package by rubbing the outside of his pants on the zipper area. This part is really boring if done for a long time, so after half a minute, open his zippers, unbuckle his belt, loosen his buttons and slide his pants off to the floor. You may add some flaming eye contact here if you want.

2. Now, with his bulge saying hello to you, touch it lightly with your fingertips and see his reaction. Grope for his balls underneath and feel its warmth while gently giving it a squeeze. Insert your right hand under the seam of his underwear, and get a skin-on-skin feel of his hardening “buddy,” and then squeeze it to feel its hardness.

3. Completely pull his underwear down, and savor the sight and smell of his commander. [Note: Some people are repelled by smegma, the smell emitted by the penis that results from sweating, so unless this stench excites you, you should administer the act after he's fresh from the shower.] It’s not totally erect by now, but don’t rush on it especially if you have time. Closely breathe and blow air around his penis and lick the inguinal area or crotch, the parts located alongside it that serves as junction between the legs and the trunk. There should be some reaction.

4. Wet your tongue and lick the head until his beef comes into full attention. Go to the underside and lick the part where the balls and shaft meet. This part is sensitive that it will make his beef point to heaven.

5. From this point that he is already erect, there are several ways to continue the fun. Remember that during this whole moment, he is 100% submissive and will allow anything that you do. The word is, enjoy. With your wet tongue, lick the balls and the entire shaft, leaving no part unlicked. If need be, create a ring with your index finger and thumb and place it at the base of his shaft. This will allow you to be in control of his length so that licking will be easier. Go up and down, visit the underside and the upside, and do not hesitate to savor the parts that you want to feel. Vary the pressure with your tongue as well as its length. A relaxed tongue covers more shaft area compared to a pointed one.

6. You are not yet in the main portion of the act. Proceed by kissing his penis with your wet lips; hold your lips in kissing position and rub it against his shaft, up and down, back and forth. Combine the kissing with the licking and wait until he gives his first set of moans.

7. The best part to stimulate is the glans or the head. This is a very sensitive area that will surely cause ultimate enjoyment to him when pleasured, so you should give your best shot at it. Cover your teeth with your lips, open your mouth, and slowly slide the head into the warm cave. Once the head is inside, close your mouth and lick the head, making sure that the entire area is touched, especially the uber sensitive area under the head called the sweet spot, the one that forms an inverted letter “V.” Be playful.

8. Start going down on his chief of staff with your mouth and lips still in tandem. Pay attention to your teeth; they should never touch the penis. Once in a while, include licks on the head when you go down. This can be a challenging feat because your tongue may be not that flexible to lick when half of his penis is inside your mouth. Change the angle of your head when you move up and down; go down with your head inclined to the right, then go up and move your head to the left. Do this vise versa. Incorporate some light sucking on the head–do not suck too hard because it can be painful.

9. From the head, lick the underside of the shaft all the way down to the balls. The scrotum is another sensitive area that deserves due attention. Start by doing a combination of light and hard licking–again, ensuring that all areas receive equal love–and then direct your pointed tongue toward the left inguinal area. Lick downward diagonally going to the area under the balls (the part between the balls and the anus, called perineum), then lead your tongue up to the middle of the balls (where you can see the line that divides the left and right part), then go diagonally down at the perineum, and finally up to the right inguinal area. The aim here is to create a capital “W.” This can mean to him WOW.

10. Get the balls and put them inside your mouth, giving it some tongue attention while they are there, as well as some light sucking. Put the balls out, get one and suck on it lovingly. Do the same thing for the other ball. While you are working on the balls, create a fist with your one hand and insert the shaft there in order to keep it hard and erect. While you play with his balls, masturbate the rod with your hand.

11. Going far down south, the perineum is also a very sensitive area that creates some oh-lah-lah internal reaction. The best way to please it is by licking using various methods. Combine pointed and lax tongue actions in this area until you drive him totally crazy.

12. After the balls and the perineum, get your attention back to the rod. Put it inside your mouth, and go down as far as you can. Relax your throat (just like sword swallowers) and try to take in his entire lolly up to the base. This is called deep-throating, an act that every man enjoys a lot. Have his cock inside your mouth as long as you can, and let your saliva dribble down. Never swallow your saliva when giving a blow job; it’s an important utility.

13. Combine all techniques and relish his bodily reactions. Make his moans your aphrodisiac, and torture him with everything you do. If you want to give head for a long time, do the sucking-up-and-down technique seldom, as this can excite the penis so much and will lead to faster orgasm. Give more attention to the sweet spot–it will surely make him really hard and will cause him to contract his abdomen and move his pelvis in ecstasy. Trace his corona with your tongue as this is another sensitive area that builds excitement.

14. You will know that semen is building up in his penis when he starts doing some jerky action, as if he is being electrocuted. Don’t mind this, but instead torture him more. If you want to prolong the experience, stop for a while until he gets back to a relaxed state, and then start again.

15. When he is about to climax, which you will know by some signs (e.g., cursing, jerking movement, faster breathing), hold his balls with your hands–you will feel his juices rushing from his balls toward the exit. You have two options here: swallow or not to swallow. Swallowing adds a wilder side to it and may mean something to him. If you do not want to swallow, make sure that you have tissue to clean up. Remember that the contractions may be too great that he will shoot every where. After the climax, suck his penis lightly, as it is extremely sensitive after orgasm.

NOTE: When giving head, you have to show enthusiasm. If you show that you are not enjoying it, he will just prefer not to have it at all. A  man builds respect to himself and his manhood when his sergeant receives some lovingly attention from someone important to him–or perhaps, from just anybody. He will really like you–or prefer–if you make this moment sweet and unforgettable for him and his buddy.

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11 responses to “Secrets to Giving a Sweet, Unforgettable Blow Job

  1. Very nice and informative post! I especially like your euphamism “Chief of staff”. Hillarious!

  2. i luved dis one and thank u p.s in trinidad we call it wethead or suckprick

  3. Linnea

    Is it weird that I got turned on by reading this innocent and fairly technical guide? I´ll definitely use these tips however, as a girl, it feels like giving a good BJ is a sacred art unknown to those without a penis. So. Thank you!

  4. Many thanks for such a helpful study guide to help a paralyzed man learn this art to hopefully achieve some kind of release by sharing in another mans orgasm . Feeling a penis become erect and to intensify the climax for others unable to feel an orgasm myself…… Your site is the best !!!!!!!!! Thanks again from this cocksucker

  5. A guy

    …..thank..you…

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